In this post, I'm going to dive deeper into Gemini and compatibility, which we'll be talking about Gemini. Keep in mind as you're reading this that it will apply to sun sign and moon sign compatibility meaning you can apply to Gemini Sun sign with each sun sign and that compatibility and Gemini moon with each sign and the moon position.
When it comes to soul mate compatibility with each sign of the zodiac, I broke it down into three categories. let's start with category one and in this category, it would be the best matches for Gemini and those signs would be Aries, Aquarius, Libra, and Leo.
Aries and Gemini
Well, although Gemini may not want to admit this Aries will end up being the decision maker, but this will actually work out great because Gemini is fantastic at coming up with ideas and creative visions regarding almost any topic. And Aries is great at focusing that energy into a final decision and moving forward and taking action. So in this way they complement each other very well. They also both love socializing, constant adventure and each other's sense of humor. The only issue that more than likely will come up in this relationship is a bit of bickering because Aries like all cardinal signs tend to take a parenting role at times and Gemini is definitely not into being parented by the romantic partner. However, these bickering sessions are short lived and they move right back to having fun and being great friends as well as even better lovers.
Aquarius and Gemini
These two make a great match. They both have no problem forgiving each other when they're unpredictable. Nature gets them in trouble because they obviously have no problem understanding being unpredictable since they both can be that way. And not to mention that they both stay way too active to be pulled down by any jealousy issues. Of course this can change if they have a lot of water in their chart but without that factor they both can shake off jealousy pretty quickly, they also make sure to have a strong friendship in addition to the romantic dynamic. So this really helps them to stay connected. As long as these two can be clear on what the dynamic of commitment is between the two of them, then they can have major power couple potential.
Libra and Gemini
You know, whenever we have two energies from the same element, this is going to be a natural, easy connection between the two of them. Neither of them is too demanding. They both love keeping things light and they agree on almost everything. And even when they don't agree, it's no big deal because they appreciate diversity of thought, liberal loves the way Gemini is excited by each of life's encounters and Gemini loves libras, good taste and appreciation for the finer things in life. As long as they can implement some financial practicality into the relationship and as long as they can make sure to discuss what they see in terms of their plans for the future than these two should be good to go, they get a definite thumbs up from me.
Leo and Gemini
These two definitely have more in common than they do differences. Leo's confidence invites Gemini seductive nature and Gemini actually has a lot of fun trying to one up leo and a healthy competitive way though, meaning they are both ambitious and they have fun with each other by seeing who can be the bigger and more successful personality. While they're still supporting each other and wanting for both of them to win and to work as a team, a lot of good fun and a lot of good sex is a large portion of why these work so well together. Gemini does have a tendency to analyze and sometimes criticized though. So as long as leo doesn't take the criticism personally and as long as Gemini understands leo's need for consistency when it comes to affection than these two have, the potential to be in it for the long term.
Okay, and the second category, we have the signs that can work for gemini, but it will definitely be tricky and it will take a little extra work.
The signs in this category would be Cancer, Capricorn, Taurus, Pisces and being with another Gemini.
Cancer and Gemini
Initially Gemini’s lively energy, puts Cancer in a great mood and cancers affectionate nature fulfills. Gemini’s desire for physical connection. They will find a bond when it comes to creativity and they both love to laugh and this also adds to their connection. The challenge with these two is cancer definitely doesn't love Gemini's flirtatious nature mainly because Gemini says that they aren't being flirtatious, they say that cancer is seeing it all the wrong way and that they're just being friendly and Gemini feels tied down by cancers rules and regulations, which cancer sees not as rules and regulations but more as necessary protection and boundaries for the relationship. So if they can get on the same page in these two Aries and they can be great together. If not the differences in these two Aries will cause some major conflict.
Capricorn and Gemini
These two are very different personalities that can for sure over time, developed a major appreciation for one another. Gemini can influence Capricorn to be a little more open minded and a little more light hearted and Capricorn can influence Gemini to be a little more focused and to be more consistent in terms of making their dreams a reality. So if Gemini can jump on board to some of Capricorns rules and Capricorn can loosen up in the judgmental Aries. These to actually have some real potential here. But without the necessary compromise, it will be a continuous struggle. Gemini will struggle for more freedom and Capricorn will struggle for more reliability and consistency in their partner and without other parts of their chart that help these adjustments, they may find that they are much better off as friends.
Taurus and Gemini
Taurus loves the fact that Gemini is so excited by life. The Gemini loves the fact that tourists is direct with their communication. So this creates a strong physical attraction between the two of them, but once we get past the physical attraction, the challenges begin, Gemini will be bored with Taurus constant need for stability and their constant desire to have conversations and ask questions regarding the relationships future plans and Taurus will for sure get frustrated with how much Gemini loves to have fun expressing their freedom as an individual outside of the relationship. In order for this to work, these two will have to have a serious sit down conversation about what they truly and specifically require in a relationship in order to be fulfilled and then make commitments on both sides to take the necessary and specific actions to fulfill those needs. Without this level of clarity, when it comes to communication, they may find that their differences are just too plentiful to overcome.
Pisces and Gemini
This is a situation where their passion for each other will be very strong. Pisces is an open imaginative lover, and Gemini has that fun, lively wild side, that makes pisces feel free to express themselves, which is great. The problems start to occur when Gemini finds that pisces takes love very, very seriously, which means they can get their feelings hurt by Geminis mischievous behavior and issues will also come up when Gemini expresses their need for freedom because pisces is all about freedom in terms of no rules, but they do want to have experiences as a couple and when Gemini says freedom for them, that translates to having some alone time, which really doesn't compute for pisces and Gemini will then get irritated by pisces insecurities and pisces will see Gemini is insensitive. So, unless they bridge this gap with other parts of their chart that diminish these disconnecting traits, then these two will for sure have a challenging ride together.
Gemini dating another Gemini
In the bedroom, these two will have the time of their lives, but once the lights turn on and they have to exist in the real world, we're gonna have some problems to people with tons of ideas and exciting agendas. Sounds great in theory and these two will have a lot of fun together, but they're gonna need other parts of their chart that bring a bit more practicality and consistency to the relationship if it's gonna work. This is another one of these situations where they will have to get clear on agreements regarding the goals and dynamics of the relationship if they don't, they may just wind up as two people that started off having great sex together and then transitioned into two friends that have a lot of laughs, a lot of good times, but somehow ended up in new relationships with different people for no reason other than the novelty of the sexual connection wore off. And there was nothing else on the romantic side to grasp onto. They will have no bad blood between the two of them. They just won't have enough of a romantic emotional connection or commitment to sustain the relationship.
Okay, the third and final category would be the most challenging matches for Gemini and those signs would be Virgo Scorpio and Sagittarius.
Virgo and Gemini
Well, both of these signs are ruled by Mercury. So they approach situations from an intellectual perspective which works really well in terms of compatibility because at least in a situation when problems arise, they will be more logical than emotional. However, the main issue between the two of their personalities is that they really see the world and love so differently. Virgo will see Gemini as all over the place and impractical. And Gemini will see Virgo as uptight. Now this can actually be resolved if they have other placements that bring them together.
For example, I have reader that are married and one is Gemini or Scorpio Moon and she's married to a Virgo with Capricorn moon. Now, Capricorn moon and Scorpio Moon are perfect together. So emotionally, they have a very, very strong bond and this can counterbalance the fact that their personalities are so different. But without a major point of connection like this example, verbal energy and Gemini energy will find it very hard to bridge the gap of consistent disconnect brought on by the fact that they see the world so very differently.
Scorpio and Gemini
For one thing, scorpios are very private and this is a problem because Geminis love to talk. They love to tell stories and they love to share their world with other people if sex were all that mattered in the relationship, these two would be a great match for each other. However, we all know that yes, sex is a very, very important part of a relationship, but you have to be able to get along outside of the bedroom and outside of the bedroom and almost every Aries of life these to see things differently when conflict arises and it most definitely will. They will have a hard time resolving the issue because Scorpio is not very forgiving unless you take total responsibility for your part in the disconnect. And Gemini is all about talking their way out of things and attempting to make you see the situation, the way that they see it and Scorpio does not fall for that manipulation tactic. So without some serious help from other parts of their chart. These two will be in a constant struggle to find a reason to stay together other than the good sex.
Last but not least, Sagittarius and Gemini, the one thing that these two have in common is they both have tons of ideas and they're both really creative problem solvers. So when they meet and there is an attraction, they will for sure have fantasies of what the possibilities can bring when it comes to the love that they could share between the two of them. But this quickly and I mean quickly becomes a big disagreement. Now, if one person is a Sagittarius with Gemini Moon or if one person is a Gemini with Sagittarius Moon then they do have hope. However, any other version of this combination is going to be engaged in a constant uphill battle to find some way to resolve the many, many issues that come about by being in a relationship with someone that sees just about everything in the exact opposite way.
I know I said both of them are great problem solvers. So you would think that if they have problems in the relationship that it wouldn't be difficult for them to solve whatever issue it is however, because they see things exactly in the opposite way, they may both have great ideas on how to resolve it, but neither one of them wants to give in to the others because they don't see it as the best idea and this is one of the types of issues that you get when you try to have two polar opposite to people who see the world and two completely different ways attempting to have a romantic relationship together. So without them having some major other points of compatibility in their chart, it's going to be a difficult, difficult uphill battle.